I use kitchen shears to cut the tails in half. One cut along the back shell, one along the belly, and the third cut through the meat keeps it all intact without too much mess. Once the meat is steamed, I use tongs to pull the steamer basket out, let the meat cool, and use my hands to gently separate the meat from the shells. And save the liquid from the pot!
We are always surprised by how much flavor we get from sauteing and deglazing with wine, so be sure to give this step enough time to develop all the lobstery-goodness you're looking for. We let the wine reduce until just a puddle was left before we added the stock.
We cheated a little here by using ketchup instead of tomato paste. Once everything had simmered and we removed all the bay leaves, I used our immersion blender until the soup had a smooth glossy appearance. The recipe calls for some cream, lemon juice, and salt to taste to finish the soup. We always go a step further and throw in a splash of Worcestershire sauce and a few hits of Tabasco to really pull the whole thing together.
The final step is mostly for presentation, but it's also another opportunity to add a bit of flavor to the soup. After you lightly saute the tails, deglaze the pan with a bit of brandy or cognac and pour the pan-sauce into the soup. Since you'll be eating this with a spoon, be sure to cut the meat into bite-sized slices, and sprinkle a little paprika and fennel frond over the top for garnish.